4 op. last 2 1/2 years! bladder tie-Hyst. Dexon mesh imbd. in skin. Dr's say infct. Blad_out? Dr. who can fix

I have had 4 op. last 2 1/2 ys. Bladder tie_ Hyst. @ same time. Kept bleed_ng-Tie patch- 4 diff. Dr's? 1'st Dr. made wrong insc_n with blad_r tie. Dexon mesh inb_ed in skin, inf_ct. Dr's say may have to remove bladder? Can't get all of Dexon mesh out? Tried 2 times? Who & where best place to go to correct(get mesh out) ? I bleed all the time. inf_ct, etc. Worse when I'm on my feet or lifting. Dr. says this has nothing to do with bleeding & infection? Help please! I do not want to wear a colostomy the rest of my life! The Dr. has tried 2 times to remove imbed_ed Dexon mesh? Who & where to go to get this problem resolved? Help!!!!!! 1'st Dr. bladder tie made mislick with knife, according current urog_st. 2'nd Dr. did Hyst. @ the same time as 1'st tie up. Kept blee_g-one Dr. says it's the tie-one says it's the hyst. I go to another Dr. who tells me the don't know. I go to another Dr.(Current) urog_st who is nice and he tries to get Dexon mesh that is emb_ed in skin out. Who & where HELP?!